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The Best Sexy Oil

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Sandalwood oil is a beautiful sexy oil that can be used anywhere on the body! Sandalwood essential oil is the oil that most closely aligns with scent of human sex hormones.


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Sandalwood is one of the only two oils that can be used directly on the genitals. Sandalwood oil is a perfect sex oil.

The other oil that I would use directly on the genitals is rose oil. It is a magical oil. Warming and loving, it provides nuturing to all nerve endings in the genital area.

You could use essential oil for sex in the following ways:

  • Mix sandalwood with other oil combinations which have aphrodisiac qualities (e.g. patchouli, ylang ylang, rose) for a sexy oil perfume.
  • Use any of the above essential oils with a carrier oil for an erotic massage.
  • One drop on the clitoris is warming and remember it has aphrodisiac qualities, so be ready for a fantastic orgasm!
  • Use a drop of oil to inhale at the point of orgasm, then wear that oil anytime you want to feel sexy (Imagine your connection to that oil?)

I only use therapeutic grade essential oil during sex. I wouldn't risk putting any other oil on such a sensitive part of the body.

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Ideas for Erotic Massage

Essential oils can be used in erotic massage. Imagine the sexy oil blend you could make. Although you may want to stick with sandalwood and/or rose if you want to include the gential area.

I also use a carrier oil which is especially useful for skin and intimate areas. You need an oil that is odourless, colourless and is non-staining to most materials. Be careful most carrier oils have a short shelf life and go racid after a few months.

The carrier oil I use has a shelf life of up to two years. It is a beautiful blend of coconut oil, olive oil, almond oil, sunflower seed oil, wheatgerm oil and grape seed oil. this combination is used as it is a nourishing and anti-oxidant oil.

Sensual massage requires gentle touch so use nuturing, gentle strokes. As the giver, take the opportunity to express selfless, unconditional love to your partner, and do your best to clear your mind of all thoughts.

Keep your breathing slow and in synchronisation with your partner's. Keep contact with the body and have your blend and extra oil within reach so you do not break the flow of the massage.

Of course, if you are using a good quality carrier oil and therapeutic essential oils, erotic massage is perfect between partners and can be used on all areas of the body, including genitals. You can use your sexy oil blend at any time!

Remember, respect your partner, it is about give and take on both sides and always ask for feedback, respecting their wishes to stop at any time.

Dr Mia Rose has a fabulous website Better Sex 4 Women for you to explore your sexuality. Remember, essential oil perfume as the potential to change you and your partner's mood...have a sexy day!

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